Thursday, January 30, 2014

What is the deal......



Yes I have admitted in the past that I am a huge "reality" show junkie even though most of the garbage that is being put out as of late comes under the "docu-drama" category. Most of this shit is choreographer and I know for a fact that scripts are handed out.  The other day I had a few minutes and said to myself that I would not get sucked into the vortex of the show 100 Days of Summer - now besides the cast of douchiness especially Vince and some really vapid females which had me questioning my IQ an brain cell count- it just looked like your run of the mill drama that we have all seen before.   Like I said I had a few minutes and with me being a BRAVOaolich the channel always being on Bravo and the damn show being on about 100 times a day I was previ to a part that just drives me friggin insane about the female gender.

The constant insistent nagging of getting married - I mean to the point of nausea!  This chick has been with this guy less than one year and she is just drilling into him to "cohabitant" so she can reel/wrangle him in for a proposal in less than 12 months after that. You can tell the man is uncomfortable as HELL because all this woman talks about is marriage and kids. She is over 30 so she is freaking the hell out that she is not married yet. Panic Attack...OMG you know woman that you don't technically need a man to have a kid if you are so damn hard up for one go get your self some sperm and STFU. I do not get this fascination of having to be married in a certain time frame - I believe this is one of the reasons why we have so many damn divorces in this country people just settle just because they want to say they were married before age __________fill in the blank. They do not take the time to get to know the person and to really find out what is going on in their lives. I have seen it so many times...I have known women to rope men any way they can in order to plan their perfect wedding. Dude if you are so hard up for a party then have a damn solo one and wear a mother fucking white dress....Now I don't mean to come down on my Midwest/Southern peeps but this seems to be a huge push in these parts of the country for young brides/marriage. I don't see this happening in major urban areas...I know MANY women who's first marriage did not happen until way late 30's and no one stresses about it here...or it seems that way to me because most of the people I have met/know are popping kids out at 40{maybe not all but a huge portion}.

So what I am trying to say is enjoy your life and have fun before you decided to tie yourself down at 21. I get it that in some cases what is meant to be is meant to be but I have a 50 percent divorce rate that shows otherwise. Also lay off the I want a ring by this date and I need to be married by this time. From my experience men do not do well with ultimatums especially the hey you need to propose to me by a certain date one. I have seen many men run from those types of situations they can smell a desperate woman a mile away and just figure the nagging will get worse after they are married. . Relax, take it day by day and have fun getting to know each other. Live together for awhile{I would make that a requirement before getting a marriage license} - you learn allot from a person when you live with them - so many things that you sometimes wonder fuck if I had lived with my first husband before I got married I would have not had a divorce under my belt.

We live and we learn. T


2 comments:

Jenny said...

I agree I wish I could be a Monday Morning Quarterback for my life lol. You have to let life happen naturally and stop pushing through it.

Mrs. Tuna said...

I would stay and chat longer but the Vanderpump Rules Finale is coming on in 10 minutes.

Feeling the love......