Thursday, February 16, 2012

I just don't give...


a f*ck anymore. Their I said it.......This morning I got up and decided in my 42 year age wisdom that I was not going to give a sh*t about what people have to say or what they are doing. I gotta say it is awesome and I feel 100 times more relaxed and serene...I feel as though a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

To think of all the time I have wasted, years worrying about what the person down the hall thought, or what people thought of me while walking down the street...well you know what no more. I have wasted so many emotions. I wasted words and part of my life worrying and stressing about stupid sh*t and in the end it really does not matter. All that matters is that your are a good person. Who, what, were that is all irrelevant. In the past I have opened up my heart to many people and have had it stomped in the process and you know what folks you are now on your own and you can kiss my ass.

Life is too short and you are not guaranteed the next day.....so grab life by the balls and ride. Right now I have a very good friend of my moms who is fighting for her life. They discovered a tumor in her brain last week. I just saw her a month ago and she was fine.  You never know what the next day is going to bring so worrying about people I do not know or barely know is a waste of time and energy. I am going to take that energy and filter it in my family and immediate close group of friends.  I am going to not be scared to take more chances and do what I need to do to make ME and my family happy.


Peace.....

15 comments:

Sarah @ It's a Vol said...

Preach it sista! Carpe diem!

joeh said...

You go girl! That is the one good thing that age brings, you don't give a sh*t about trivial stuff.

My brother had brain cancer, there are more and more things they can do to kill the tumor. Prayer also works sometimes!

Cranky

camgold said...

I learned that a long time ago, if I hadn't I would not have made it.
Raising two boys (by myself), working and trying to make ends meet were exhausting and then came all the rumors, etc. from people who really didn't know me spreading rumors, I was no angel but if I had done all the things I was accused of doing there would have had to been 40 hours in every day. I learned quickly who friends were and weren't and I guess I put up a wall just to survive. One thing in my life that I am proud of is my two boys, they are the ones that got me through it all and it was worth everything to see how they both have turned out to be such wonderful sons.
Life is to short and we need to treasure every moment (sounds good not always possible). Sorry to hear about your Mom's friend.

Caffeinated OC Mommy said...

Welcome to the club Darling! My cup is lifted high as you enter... the IDGAF#@k doors... xoxo

Irene@I'm A Silly Mami said...

Sorry to hear about your mom's friend. Good for you on your new attitude. I personally don't give a rat's ass if people like me or not. I have enough crap to deal with and you can't please everyone.

I like my y'all can suck it attitude and that's the nice version

Mommy Bags said...

I am in the zone ladies and feeling so good.

Michael Ann said...

Amen!

insomnia said...

I don't give a fuck either:) Welcome to the group. Great rant there. I stopped giving a F years ago.

Andrea said...

Trying to get there...thanks for the nudge!

cyn said...

fuckin' A!

life is too short to spend it with peeps who suck the happiness outta ya!

go be you & live YOUR life!!!

rock on mama!

Mommy With Selective Memory said...

I love it!! I love when you said, "Take life by the balls and ride it!" I might have to laminate that and put it on my dashboard!! :-) You're right...life is too short!!

Jessica @ TheCrazyChaoticHouse said...

well written sista! So sorry to hear about your friends mother. Life is definitely too short:)

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Knocked Up in Bama said...

Viva la resistance!!! I salute you!! Not that you care, cause you don't give a shit, but that's awesome with me! Wait, I'm confused...anyhoo, I completely agree, life is too short, live for the moment!!

Susan said...

Rock it MB! So glad for you! Shed those shit heads and grab life's balls!!!!

I'm so sorry for your mom's friend and I will send positive energy!

Blessings most fabulous woman!
Susan
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