Tuesday, July 24, 2012

The Checklist...........

I will probably receive some type of slack or ta ta on this post but you know what it is what it is and it is just me......Sometimes I think there are reasons there are so many single women out in dating land. Yeppp...Mmmm...Yep I went there. Why do I say this because some of the bitches are just plain crazy.  I get the I don't want to settle...... but damn a 150 must have list and you are wondering WHY you have not met anyone yet?  Mmmmm let's see..... besides what I personally think is a RIDICULOUS must have man checklist you are doing this in a f*ckin princess tiara {don't even get me started on this} while telling us a man is lucky to have you in his life? Sorry sweets your over 40, wearing a crown on your friggin head with a list of must haves with an attitude - you are not sending out the most stable vibes to dating land.  I love that the list for the male must meet all these requirements but oh no her list is full of do not's. I don't do laundry, I don't do dishes, I don't cook, I don't do kids, I don't do cleaning and so on and so on and so on. No one is perfect and if you set yourself thinking their is one perfect man out there then good luck because you will be waiting awhile. Why does that just seem not OK?  Or am I the crazy one?  I guess it easy for me to say I am married but you know what peeps I had to kiss allot of frogs to get to my awesome husband and I did this all without a list. I took a chance, took it easy, NEVER pressured marriage and did my thing and I got so damn lucky it is not even funny. I have a man who loves, respects and treats me as an equal. 
I see it everyday......women who have these super high expectations and this I must snag this unreachable visual of what their prince charming needs to be.  He needs to be this tall,  he needs to wear this type of jean, he needs to make this much a year blah blah blah blah...are you friggin serious?  The list is annoying to a female to listen too can you imagine the guy that needs to meet these expectations and got a hold of the "list".   Why don't you relax and maybe it will happen naturally - how about that? It drives me completely crazy to know that their are some women out there are missing out on some really awesome guys because they don't meet the criteria of some made up list which was probably written out when the woman was 18 years old.  Yes take your time picking out your one true but please toss the list and stop being so damn picky and maybe it will work out. 



4 comments:

joeh said...

I must have missed that Dr. Phil.

Relax Mommy B. Women with tiaras and lists are doing men a favor by turning us off right off the bat.

Sarah @ It's a Vol said...

Ugh. I know. I can't stand women who say on one hand, "I am waiting for mr. right who MUST HAVE abc...xyz qualities!" and on the other cry "boo hoo hoo, why can't I find a man to accept me for who I am? An overspoiled diva!"

This drives me to distraction!!!

Mommy Bags said...

Exactly

S. Franklin said...

You are dead on! Too many people want the fairytale-come-true. I've seen this play out many times and usually the woman either ends up alone, or marries a loser who fits the looks or financial status they are so desperate for.

Feeling the love......