Tuesday, January 1, 2013

2013 Finally.......


2012 was overall a pretty great year. 2013 is going to be f*ckin fantastic year because I am going to make it happen. I have decided that I will no longer(try really hard) not to let the small stuff affect my life. Last year I learned allot about myself as a person. I also learned that the only truly people that you can trust is your family and those friends that have been in your life forever you know the friends that truly know you inside and out and no matter how many times you see or hear from each other they will always be there. I learned to be weary of people who try to hard because what you see is not necessarily what you get. I have learned to love my family everyday and to walk away from wanting to slap the shit out of some people.  I have learned to be a bit more patient and a little more understanding and hopefully a little bit more kind. I have learned not to tolerate liars and just walk away from people who don't deserve my time and energy. Got rid of people who were not genuine and it felt great....After many years of over the top drama - no more drama and it feels pretty AMZaing!

This year 2013 I will be seeing allot of changes which I am ready for. Our Casa Crazy will be moving after much time consuming on thinking about it. We decided that with my pops getting older it was time to be closer. We also decided that we wanted GG to grow up around her cousins and the old school connection of the Italian Crue I grew up around we wanted to give her that feeling and sense of community. I also want a neighborhood with kids and where people decorate for holidays. I mean I like where I live but it is definitely more of a quite we work all the time neighborhood so people are always on the go. We live in I sat down and thought hard about this move for I am not a huge fan of the Peninsula but you know what I don't know it that well and I will do whatever it takes to be closer to people I love. Quite frankly as beautiful as Marin County is SOME people grate and I have no one here that I consider family. We start hitting the pavement looking for houses February 1st even though I have been researching areas for the the last 6 months. As we all know house hunting SUCKS donkey balls and when your dealing with a highly competitive real estate market as we are it makes it even worse  Plus who the hell likes moving? It is definitely going to be an adventure and I am totally up for it... Discovering new stores, schools, areas and places to dine.  I am telling myself to stay positive....it is a good thing.

So Happy New Year folks...back to reality and the grind tomorrow....Peace

8 comments:

Mrs. Tuna said...

I concur with dumping superficial "friends" but I am finding that as I'm getting older, I'm getting more open to having new and diverse friends. I'm not just aligned with people who I meet though work or my daughter, now I pick them because they are interested in ME!

becca said...

Happy New year may the year bring you all that is wonderful

Mommy Bags said...

Yep I am over the fake and the people who just straight up lie to your face. NO honey we can see through your bull shit your the only one that is not aware that the people around you can smell your bullshit...WORD

Michael Ann said...

Congrats on your decision to move. Sounds like it is the best direction for you and your family to take. Look forward to hearing about all your adventures!

Sarah @ It's a Vol said...

Good luck with the house search and let's make this a kick ass 2013!

Ronni said...

Happy New Year to you!!! Good for you making those positive changes in your life.

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Caffeinated OC Mommy said...

This Jennifer person above me is REALLY annoying me Darling! Hellooooooo my FABulous MB! Happy happy new year and the best of luck with the new house thingy! Miss you terribly... xoxo

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