Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Drama 911.....

So I am like...kinda of...... wondering where the hell my daughter went? The last couple of weeks I feel like I have been dealing with Sybil you know the chick with the 101 personalities*BTW it came out that that whole things was a big ol shammy sham sham*. Back to GG I swear to George people she is driving me crazy. All of a sudden she has become little Ms. Diva and I will not stand for such bullshit. I mean it is like she is me when I am PMSing like a MoFo. If this little bit of attitude is anything what she is going to give me in her tween years I might as well sign up for rehab right now. I can deal that everyday I am getting a new person what I cannot deal with is the whiny girl she seems to have become overnight. The girl can't seem to remember that in order to get what you need done you need to ask for it like a person and not some whiny ass chick that sounds like a bad imitation on one of the ladies from real housewives when she does not get the big ass diamond she really wanted. I know she is a toddler and I need to cut her some slack but I will not have a little girl who whines it is like nails on a chalkboard.  I know their are many things I said to myself that if I ever had a child would never have them do...some I have not stuck to*HELLO Barbie* others I will not have her break me and that is to have a girl that whines. I hate whiny girls drives me insane in the membrane...I would rather have a girl who shouts than a girls who whines. And the drama Jesus H Christ the drama is so over the top I feel like I am in Clueless. Everything is an ordeal...getting in the car.....carrying her lunch pail...daily life.....Wahhhhhhh


Besides that she will not leave the house until she is perfectly accessorized and her shoes must match*My bad on that one I am pretty anal when it comes to how my daughter leaves the house*. Must be the Italian in me but my daughter is always put together might sound silly but that is the why I am programmed. I remember looking back at my baby pics and my mom did the same thing to me clothing were always stylish as stylish as the 70's could be but I was lucky I got allot of my clothing from my nonna in the old country and most of the Italian frocks rocked! She has also become a little OCD on how she likes to keep her toys whihc sometimes gang to tell you the truth scares me a little. I will go into her room to put the laundry away and I will have like 11 barbies staring at me all in this american psycho neat row....Kind of creepy but she is a little one trying to come in on her own......right?  If heads start disappearing and I find plastic body parts under the bed I think it might be time to worry.....I also would like the common courtesy that my daughter listen and answer me when I call her name. Nothing is more infuriating then calling my beloved GG 800 times before she answers. I also think that she is growing up and I need to be more patient with her. I just started having her buckle herself in her car seat because she wants to do it on her own an she can I just need to let her spread her wings and let her do her thing and I need to slow down and I need to start trusting her. I fell like three is going to be a magical year for my little one...she is already fiercely independent I wonder what is in store for me? Oh joy!

7 comments:

joeh said...

Many of a toddlers traits that drive you crazy become their biggest assets later in life.

I always say parents who brag about a child that never whines, cries and sleeps throught the night are raising a turnip...not so great in their later years.

The trick is maintaining your sanity while they find theirs.

If you figure out how to do that let me know how you did it!

becca said...

the joys and trials of being a mommy and they wonder why we ask for chocolate on a daily basis

cyn knight said...

skylar has been exactly like this for the past six months... and yes, i have pondered a drinking problem but it DOES get better!

little girls are women in the making... and definitely more of a mental workout!

xxoo!

Im A Silly Mami said...

I swear - you and I are going through a lot of similar shit with our little one. I hate that whine shit too! drives me nuts. The yelling i can stand, the tantrums - I ignore her until she's ready to talk. They also learn so much bad shit from pre-school too! Hang in there mama-LOL!

Irene

ana said...

Ugh... the Chitlin is doing the same thing with all the whining.. a little whining from her, a glass of wine for me...

Not Winning Mom of the Year said...

Hang in there, we went through the same testing boundaries and him wanting his independence. We didnt fight it and he all of sudden doing all these random things on his own.

Babes Mami said...

My son is behaving very similarly, he's 3 and almost a half and it's like a month ago some switch turned in him...it's torture some days!! Hang in there, people keep telling me it stops as soon as it starts. Just have to get to that damn day.

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