Friday, October 5, 2012

Dear Rihanna........

What the hell is going on with you girl? As I  watch the many news cast and pics on all the gossip sites I am stunned on how naive you could be... Now you can say all you want that you guys are working on a "friendship"*and we all know what working on a friendship means in Hollywood* but if a man was working on just a  "friendship" with you he would have not broken up with his girlfriend this past week. Another thing Ms. Rihanna you knew that Mr CB had a girlfriend yet you continued to work on your "friendship" while he was supposedly committed to another person. What the hell is up with that?   As a woman who has gone through heartbreak before you should know better than that. Oh and let's not forget one HUGE factor as why you broke off your relationship with CB in the first place. Do you remember that night that he did this to your face?
I know that some artist say I did not sign up to be a role model but you know what you kind of did when you signed the dotted line on the contract they finally handed to you after many years trying to get to the top. You not only signed up for the money, cars, stylist, lavish lifestyle but you also signed up to be worshiped by people that become your fans and many of your fans happen to be little girls/young women who look up to you. And I am sorry to say this Ms. Rihanna but what your telling some of these girls/women is that it is OK to go back to a woman beater.

I have seen many friends live through horrible, horrible physical abuse and it just boggles the mind that you would even consider getting back together with CB. Dude based on the police report he stomped on your face STOMPED and punched your beautiful face.  I have seen women with nothing get up and leave so they would not have to deal with daily physical blows and you who has MANY resources/money have chosen to go back? WHY?  You can say what you want that you are just friends but based on what I am seeing you guys have been hooking up for a bit.  Yes love can sometimes sucks and is hard but girl you need to love yourself more because a woman should never have a man do this to them.  As a person who has seen physical abuse front and center a man who does this to a woman will  eventually do it again. I am hoping I am wrong but remember a leopard cannot change it's spots.

Just my random thoughts.....


5 comments:

Jessica @ TheCrazyChaoticHouse said...

Totally agree!!! I cannot even look at that image of her...terrible!!! And yes he will do it again!!! Friends....yeah right!!! I have witnessed abuse first hand and finally one day my mom left my dad...it took several years but I am so proud of her. We had nothing and had to live with relatives but it was way better than my mom getting beat! Yeah i don't understand why she would even want to be friends with him. Blows my mind. He doesn't deserve a second chance!!!

Andrea said...

Would it be wrong to mention here that I also cannot stand the lyrics to 95% of her songs...no better messages there!

Sarah @ It's a Vol said...

I completey 125% agree with you. WTF is she thinking?

Caffeinated OC Mommy said...

Here here Darling, my thoughts EXACTLY! Blowing kisses... xxxxx

ana said...

Totally! I just don't get it... SMH

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