tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post6348044110621585362..comments2023-10-24T05:02:05.573-07:00Comments on Mommy Bags.....: Family....Mommy Bagshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14016498338534458441noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-41748547690238850442013-03-24T13:33:34.899-07:002013-03-24T13:33:34.899-07:00Just saying this MB:
Mucho love and hugs!
You are...Just saying this MB:<br />Mucho love and hugs!<br /><br />You are amazing!I'm free of the abusehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00268444000594512557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-89841265411214812272013-03-23T04:27:43.863-07:002013-03-23T04:27:43.863-07:00Awwww man girlfriend i am so sorry! I don't th...Awwww man girlfriend i am so sorry! I don't think you are being over emotional at all. This is how it was formy grandmother, her brother was always #1. She is always telling me stories from when they were younger. Are you and your brother close? And what does he say if anything about it? Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13745941734752306290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-92063923385255276872013-03-18T17:46:35.205-07:002013-03-18T17:46:35.205-07:00Ahhh family drama...how well I know it. I love my ...Ahhh family drama...how well I know it. I love my brother--and yes, with 3 sisters, he was still the family favorite. But he married a witch of a woman whom I refuse to speak to anymore--she is mean and vindictive but is has taken my mother 30 years to finally figure this out. Trust me this stuff all has a way of coming out over time. I think your reasons for moving are admirable and you''re going to have to follow your heart on this one. It sounds like you have accepted the fact that your brother is the family favorite. I know that it hurts, but it does sound like something that is out of your control. I think you are going to have to learn to just shut out the negativity. If your brother gets nasty about it, just walk away for awhile and do your own thing. Don't let his anger drag you down to his level. Concentrate on your OWN family for now and ignore what is going on in his. menopausal mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09058933838070665032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-46176582252417707642013-03-15T18:30:51.565-07:002013-03-15T18:30:51.565-07:00You have my sympathies...my boss is going through ...You have my sympathies...my boss is going through similar issues with his family; he keeps saying being an orphan is highly underrated.<br /><br />My family is 5,000 miles away. Sometimes that's a good thing.Pixel Peeperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17553862902461169270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-70718364245117786092013-03-14T20:02:59.290-07:002013-03-14T20:02:59.290-07:00MB, you have it, it's called "The Disease...MB, you have it, it's called "The Disease to Please". I too was once there trying to keep everyone happy; hosting, travelling, offering to do shit I did not have time to do, and for what? People who still were not happy with all I was doing. So I stopped! It's hard, you feel guilt, you feel alone, an outcast, but I have more time with my boys, I don't fight with my hubs over family, and I'm just happier. Good Luck. ((HUGS))Not Winning Mom of the Yearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05964499950336437594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-44407371801077408062013-03-14T11:04:55.948-07:002013-03-14T11:04:55.948-07:00I completely understand why you wouldn't want ...I completely understand why you wouldn't want to visit every week now that it's technically your brother's house. <br /><br />My outside perspective... I think that his comments about not moving closer has to do with his feelings being hurt. Since it seems like he only says in the heat of the moment. Deep down, I think he enjoys your visits and can't effectively express his hurt at you not visiting as often... Maybe? <br /><br />I've lived an hour away from my family for almost 7 years and my mom still gives a guilt trip when I can't make it to a family event. She's said things like "none of my children love me." It sucks but I just let it go and move on. Mariebophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17821644809494606041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22884889294637839.post-22920448799237581312013-03-13T20:27:50.594-07:002013-03-13T20:27:50.594-07:00Aww, Mommy Bags. *hugs* I'm sorry they're ...Aww, Mommy Bags. *hugs* I'm sorry they're making you feel crappy. You're awesome and deserve better. I wish I had something better to say.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07928614895111353202noreply@blogger.com